Posted in Blog, Change, Life

Your reality verse someone else’s reality will never be the same.

Reality is about what is real; and it can not be changed no matter what you do. There  is no do over, no replay. 
There was a movie that became a television show called, “My so-called Life.”  It was someone real life being filmed, just like all these reality shows.  If a person dies while the show was being taped there would be no replacement to step in the role.
Just like what is happening the Teresa on the Housewives of New Jersey, who is now serving time in prison.  There is so much going on in her families’ life,  that you cannot help but feel sad to be in her reality.  She had to leave her kids and is serving time even before her husband, who really did the crime.  I know it easy to think they deserve this; they should have thought about their kids at that time.  They were making money; they were being greedy.

The reality today is most people do not take the time to look at the reality of life.  Most of us living for the moment, with what is happening right now in it, that we do not think about long-term planning in the future.  Trust me, I know all about that, I have more things happening now, even with a long work career and a large amount of college.  I started over on my fourth or fifth career change, and now I am considered behind.

Just talk to someone young.  They can’t visualize their future, until they are about the graduate from high school, sometimes not even then. They may be still in the moment, and their choices at that time will be based on whatever is happening right at the moment.  

The point is you do have a choice.  We can’t expect every choice to be the right one and that everything will be perfect, so think about if carefully. 

There will be bumps in the road of life, they can cause your plans to change completely.  If that happen, hopefully you can adjust your plans and have no regrets.  Which is what a choice is really about?  What can we do today, in order to better our choices in life?

“Based on I don’t want to be in the same place tomorrow.” by Ivy Lynns



I do not consider myself as a great writer, but an avid dreamer, an artist, with a great vision of life. Being a writer is a new career for me, so there are so many things that I have to learn. I love learning things. I also love change and opening myself to new adventures. I have a lot of interests besides for romance, which is the type of book I am writing. I also love motivational and spiritual anything, i.e. angel. The things that help you when times are tough. Just like many I have experiences of good and bad times through life. Most of my life, even young as twelve I worked continuously, my last job, I retired after 25 years. Where I go in the future, who knows? I have Bachelors in Business, AA in Office Procedures, AS in Consumer and Family Studies, Diplomas in Legal and Fashion, among others. My first book that I have completed is a romance novel trilogy of about three sister, Olivia, Samantha and Maxie (Mommy's living dolls). Keep following me, I have something really special to tell you. I promise you will love it. My goal, "I am going to open up your heart" xoxo

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s