Reality is about what is real; and it can not be changed no matter what you do. There is no do over, no replay.
There was a movie that became a television show called, “My so-called Life.” It was someone real life being filmed, just like all these reality shows. If a person dies while the show was being taped there would be no replacement to step in the role.
Just like what is happening the Teresa on the Housewives of New Jersey, who is now serving time in prison. There is so much going on in her families’ life, that you cannot help but feel sad to be in her reality. She had to leave her kids and is serving time even before her husband, who really did the crime. I know it easy to think they deserve this; they should have thought about their kids at that time. They were making money; they were being greedy.
The reality today is most people do not take the time to look at the reality of life. Most of us living for the moment, with what is happening right now in it, that we do not think about long-term planning in the future. Trust me, I know all about that, I have more things happening now, even with a long work career and a large amount of college. I started over on my fourth or fifth career change, and now I am considered behind.
Just talk to someone young. They can’t visualize their future, until they are about the graduate from high school, sometimes not even then. They may be still in the moment, and their choices at that time will be based on whatever is happening right at the moment.
The point is you do have a choice. We can’t expect every choice to be the right one and that everything will be perfect, so think about if carefully.
There will be bumps in the road of life, they can cause your plans to change completely. If that happen, hopefully you can adjust your plans and have no regrets. Which is what a choice is really about? What can we do today, in order to better our choices in life?
“Based on I don’t want to be in the same place tomorrow.” by Ivy Lynns