Do you watch “The Bold and Beautiful“? Brook on the show, has had affairs or was married to half the men on the show. The last few shows were about her going through the motion of not having a man in her life for first time. They show her drinking continuously every chance she gets, including at her own sister wedding. Her sister is remarrying the man, that Brooke was in love with last. It may only be a show, but some people really can’t deal with being by their self. They don’t know how to actually be accountable for their own life.
Some people do not know what their lives would be like, if they did not have a husband, their children, the job, or that life that they exist for.
Think about a baby or young child, they do not know about anything but what is happening right now in their lives. They may get a little upset when their parent is not around. Not knowing that their parent has other things to do.
What part of your life is self served? When you give up every part of your life for others, husband, wife, kids, family, friends then blame them for it. Where were you? What part did you play in your own life’s decisions?
That is what living for you is about, being there and making your decisions for you. Go up or stand down, it has to be about you.