Posted in Blog, Change, Life

Being put in other people mold of what your life should be.

I am working on becoming a successful writer, so I see a story and vision all around in daily life.  Some people who know me may not understand why I choose to write about life and adventure. 
It can be hard to get respect or acknowledge for the thing you do in life, whether you are a great employee, a hard-working parent, or High School teacher.  Even well-known people such as writer-producer, Shonda Rimes, Steve Harvey, and President Obama, who all came from simple backgrounds; they know that changing people perception of you is not easy.  There are the young and successful ones today Taylor Swift, Justin Bieber, Lady Gaga, they too have had to take on the criticism because they are not living by someone’s mold.
A lot of people want to put you in a mold, of what they expect to see in life.  Not knowing that you are so much more than a husband, wife, mother, father, child or just an  employee.  The worst thing for you is to  stop wanting things for yourself, and only live by others expectation.  We become our own worst enemy by trying to please the ones who think the least of us.
Criticism is everywhere, when you are striving to break out the box called, your life.  Some of the criticism can help if it is meant to for improvement.  You can become better with some of the negative things; however, you have to see it as it is.  If we don’t, we will remain in the same place not living for ourselves.


I do not consider myself as a great writer, but an avid dreamer, an artist, with a great vision of life. Being a writer is a new career for me, so there are so many things that I have to learn. I love learning things. I also love change and opening myself to new adventures. I have a lot of interests besides for romance, which is the type of book I am writing. I also love motivational and spiritual anything, i.e. angel. The things that help you when times are tough. Just like many I have experiences of good and bad times through life. Most of my life, even young as twelve I worked continuously, my last job, I retired after 25 years. Where I go in the future, who knows? I have Bachelors in Business, AA in Office Procedures, AS in Consumer and Family Studies, Diplomas in Legal and Fashion, among others. My first book that I have completed is a romance novel trilogy of about three sister, Olivia, Samantha and Maxie (Mommy's living dolls). Keep following me, I have something really special to tell you. I promise you will love it. My goal, "I am going to open up your heart" xoxo

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